Alison Sarah Pym - Thérapeute Relationnelle

24 Questions

Yay! You’re going on a date!

Have fun getting ready, choose an outfit you feel comfortable in. 

Wondering how to seduce? What to do during your date? How do you know if he’s the right man? How to start your relationship?

I’m here to answer all these questions!

Let’s start with some conversations starters :

To help you in the conversation side, here is a list of questions that can maintain and develop your chat.

1- “What do you like most about your friends?

=> What a person looks for in their friends says a lot about what they look for in a potential partner.

2- “What is your favorite virtue?”

=> What are the values of this person?

3- “What is your main character trait?”

=> How does this person see themselves? Does this suit you?

4- “If you had to have dinner with anyone on this planet, who would it be?”

=> Who does the person in front of you dream about?

5- “If you had to be someone else, who would you be?”

=> Who does this person admire?

6- “What fault do you tolerate most ?”

=> Is this person patient?

7- “If you were to wake up with a new quality or skill, what would it be?”

=> Does this person have a desire to grow? What path is this person on?

8- “What is your perfect day?”

=> Are you compatible? Or are you going to have each other discover new things?

“What are you most grateful for?”

Does this person show modesty, or pride?

“What memory is most precious to you?”

What does this person care about most?

“If you were to die in a year, what would you do?”

What are this person’s passions?

“And why aren’t you doing those things today?”

What are this person’s barriers or responsibilities?

“What can’t we laugh about?”

It’s good to know people’s boundaries, they are different for everyone, let’s avoid making silly mistakes.

“How important are love and affection in your life?”

It’s a little daring to ask this kind of question, but this said we mean business!

“How do you feel about the relationship you have with your parents?”

Family means different things to different people, it’s nice to know if you’re on the same page or if your views are compatible.

“What three items would you save if your house caught fire?”

It’s a classic question but one we forget! Serious or funny answers are fine, it’s always nice to see who you’re dealing with.

“What did you dream about when you were younger?”

We continue with the classics.

“What do you dream of today?” 

This is simply the next logical step … Feel free to answer the questions as well!

“If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?”

No right or wrong answer, the idea is to know where your heart is.

“What is the best part of your day?”

Because the next question is more impactful…

“What’s the worst thing that’s happened to you recently?”

It’s great to talk about the beautiful things but to create connections you have to dig deeper!

The last three questions are from Whitney Cummings’ book, “I’m fine and other lies”.

“What is your favourite animal? Name three characteristics that make you admire it.”

The three characteristics show how that person sees themselves. Let’s avoid words like “cute” and “sweet”. Explain to this person that this is just a game to get to know each other.

“What is your favorite piece of clothing? Name three characteristics that make you admire it.”

The three characteristics show how those around him/her perceive them. Ditto, it’s a game, and it doesn’t matter what kind, he can pick a dress, she can pick a suit jacket.

“What is your favourite body of water? Name three characteristics that make you admire it.”

It can be anything, tears, ocean, pool, whatever as long as it’s water. It shows how that person sees sex, and that’s important too!

And above all: have fun!

And that’s it! That’s all for today. Beautiful day to you.

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